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What is sexual abuse?

bulletRape is defined as anal, oral or vaginal penetration with the penis, finger or any object, without the consent of the survivor.
bulletIncest is rape or sexual relationship sexual relation with blood family member. For example, the father who has sex with his daughter, this is known as incest.
bulletSexual Harassment refers to gestures that have sexual implications and are considered an insult to the dignity of the person to whom the sexual gestures, touches or words are directed.
Sexual abuse is an act of violence motivated by need to have power and control over someone else. It is not motivated by sexual desire, as many people believe. Anyone can be the victim of sexual abuse.  Rape and incest are punishable crimes in the state of Ohio.
 

Special Help for Immigrant Women

If you are an immigrant to the United States, and you are a victim of domestic violence or rape, here are some suggestions we hope will help you.

1. You deserve help, and as a crime victim, you have a right to all the same crime victim services as any crime victim born in the United States. Please don't be shy about calling police, using women's shelters, calling rape crisis centers, applying for victim assistance funds, or going to restraining order clinics. You do not have to reveal your immigration status to receive these services, and it is very unlikely you'll be asked.

If you're still afraid to call for help because you fear that authorities might deport you, here's what you or a friend of yours can do. You can call police, for example, don't give your name, and say something like this. "I have a friend who is a victim of domestic violence. But she's afraid to call police because she's an immigrant in the United States and she doesn't have documents. If my friend calls you for help, and you find out she doesn't have documents, what will you do"?

But remember, we only suggest this so you can convince yourself that you won't be deported. In the past, it is true that some immigrant women had this problem. But today, agencies that give services to crime victims do not require that you are legally in the United States in order for you to receive crime victim services. In a recent informal survey we did of victim advocates around the country, not one reported that they knew of a case in the last five years where a woman with no documents was reported to the INS because she had called the police for help or sought other victim services.

2. What if the person abusing you says that he will call INS and get you deported if you call police or try to get help? It is very, very common for violent men to make this threat to immigrant women who are their victims. But it is virtually impossible for these men to carry out this threat. To our knowledge and experience, the INS does not act on calls from one individual who calls up to report that another individual is here in the United States illegally.

It's important to take men's threats seriously. But in the case of this common threat made by abusive men,- that they'll report you to the INS and get you deported,- the men simply cannot carry it out. So please don't let this threat stop you from getting help.

And if you're depending on your husband to petition for your green card and he's abusing you, or he's threatening to stop the petition if you leave him, remember that under U.S. federal law battered immigrant women have the right to leave the abusive husband and continue the petition on your own. The staff at battered women's shelters and rape crisis centers can tell you how to do it.

3. If you are still afraid to seek help, ask someone to make the phone calls for you, and to be with you when you deal with police and other crisis workers. In fact, it's a very good idea when you get help for domestic violence and rape to have someone at your side as often as possible. Having someone with you makes you feel safer, helps you remember information, and greatly reduces the risk that officials might treat you badly or ignore your needs. This is true even if the person who goes with you doesn't speak a word of English and doesn't have any idea how the system works.

4. What if you can't think of anyone who can go with you or who can make phone calls for you? It's very common for domestic violence abusers and men who rape to very successfully isolate you from human contact. This is especially easy for them to do if you are newly arrived in the United States. Here are a few suggestions for finding people who can help you make phone calls or accompany you to more help. Remember, you don't have to tell them everything in order to ask for their help. You can simply say things like "Will you call this telephone number for me and ask if they have somebody there who speaks Spanish"? or "I've been a victim of a crime and I need to go to court. Will you watch my children for the afternoon?" or "My husband is abusive and I need a ride to police."

Here are some people you should consider asking when you need help making phone calls, help with transportation, or help with an afternoon of childcare. Think about asking family members, friends, neighbors, your minister or priest, people at your church, co-workers, your children's teachers. Even if you don't know the person well, if your intuition tells you the person is kind, they will probably say yes, they will help.

And don't forget to call the telephone operator for the telephone number of your local rape or domestic violence center. These centers have crisis phone lines that operate 24 hours a day, and most of the time they have a staff member that speaks Spanish. Again, if you're afraid to call, ask a friend to call for you.

5. Insist on Good Translations
The United States Constitution says that all persons must be given equal protection of the laws. The courts have repeatedly ruled that this means everyone from native born citizens to newly arrived immigrants whether or not that have proper documentation. Every human being in the United States has a right to equal protection of the laws.

The courts have also ruled that in order to guarantee equal protection for everyone public agencies must provide adequate translation for people who don't speak English. This means that when you use or need the services of public agencies such as police, courts, and victim assistance centers, you have a right to an interpreter.

High quality translations are especially important for victims of violence against women for many reasons. Your immediate safety depends on the officer having a full understanding of what you're saying. In addition, your statements to the police are the central evidence in the criminal case, and they must be accurately reported. And because it's so important that you feel completely free to tell the officer everything, police should not use other family members or neighbors to translate your very personal story.

Here are some other things that should help you better understand your rights to good interpreting with police:

bulletWhen you dial 911, if you don't speak English, tell the operator what language you speak. All 911 operators have immediate telephone access to highly qualified professional interpreters in many languages. It shouldn't take more than half a minute for the interpreter to join you on the line. Don't hang up!

When the interpreter gets on the line with you and the operator, stay on the line and keep answering the questions with as much information as you can give. Don't hold back! 911 interpreters are always excellent interpreters. The interpreter will pass on what you say to the 911 operator, and the 911 operator will pass on what you say to the police who are on their way to your call.

Keep talking. Tell the 911 interpreter and operator as much as you can about your situation, tell them what the perpetrator has said and done to you, tell them your fears, and tell them if the perpetrator has hurt you before. Try to keep talking on the 911 call until the police arrive at your door.
 
bulletWhen police arrive, ask the officer if he or she speaks your language. If the officer speaks your language well, tell the officer everything. If the officer doesn't speak your language well, or doesn't speak your language at all, tell the officer as best you can that you want an interpreter.

Even though you have a right to good translation from the police, the reality is that some police still don't take this obligation seriously. Be aware that the police officers responding to your call have access to the same telephone interpreter service as the 911 operator. And the police can use any telephone to call the interpreter service. Police can use a cell phone, the telephone at your home or the telephone wherever you are. So push the police as much as you can to get you an interpreter.
 
bulletIf the police try to use a family member, or a neighbor, or another member of your household to interpret, tell the person to tell the officer that you want a telephone interpreter so you can feel more comfortable and so the officer can understand you well. Your life deserves accuracy.
 
bulletIf the officer does not get you a professional interpreter, one thing you can do is grab a piece of paper and write your statement in your own language, and then hand the statement to the officer. This way, even if the officer doesn't understand you, you will have an accurate statement in the police report.
 
bulletAnother thing you can do if the officer doesn't understand you is to call 911 again, either while the officer is still there or when the officer has left. When the interpreter comes on the line, tell the interpreter that the police officer didn't understand you. Then tell the interpreter all the important information that you want the police to know.
 
bulletThe key thing to remember is that the interpreters on 911 calls are always quality, professional interpreters. Your safety depends on good communication and you have a right to good communication. So if police don't understand you completely, don't hesitate a second to dial 911 as many times as you need to get your story communicated and your safety secured.

6. Remember, telephone communication in the United States is highly mechanized. When you make a phone call in the United States, there are many times that instead of reaching a human being, you'll get an answering machine or a voice mail system. It's very important that you leave messages. Leave the information slowly. Say your name slowly and give your phone number slowly. Remember, someone who probably doesn't know Spanish perfectly is listening to the message and trying to write it down. Always leave complete information about the best time to call you back. And if you don't want them to call back when your husband is home, be sure and leave that information on the message too.  

7. What if you go to police or to crisis workers and they don't give you the help you need or they treat you badly? Don't give up! It's true, there are incompetent people in every occupation, there are racist people, lazy people, and sexist people. It's also true that there are competent, respectful, and very helpful people probably right there in the same office. So if you run into someone who treats badly, call again on another shift, or ask a friend to call the person's boss. But please don't give up. You deserve help! So keep asking until you get it.

Feel free to photocopy and distribute this information as long as you keep the credit and text intact.
Copyright © Marie De Santis,
Women's Justice Center

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Statistics

In the United States:

bullet10% of survivors are assaulted by their husbands or ex-husbands.
bullet11% by their parents or guardians
bullet10% by boyfriends of ex-boyfriends
bullet16% by other family members
bullet29% by friends, neighbors or acquaintances
bullet1 out of every 4 women is raped during her lifetime.

In Puerto Rico:

bulletIt is calculated that each year 7,000 women are raped and thousands of children are sexually abused in their homes.

In Mexico:

bulletA woman is raped every 9 minutes.

In Peru:

bullet75% of all women are raped before their 15th birthday.

In Ecuador:

bullet3 out of every 10 children have been sexually abused by the age of 16.

In Caracas, Venezuela:

bullet20 women are raped every day.

In Bogota, Colombia:

bullet10 women are raped every day

These statistics demonstrate that sexual abuse is a crime that is rampant in our society and in others. Together, we can create a consciousness to combat a very serious problem.

Statistics about Latino countries reproduced from "SEMILLAS PARA EL CAMBIO" a publication of the Centro de Ayuda a Victimas de Violacion (Center of Victims of Rape) Department of Health, San Juan, Puerto Rico, 1992.  Statistics for the United States, Department of Justice, 1995.

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